Just because a guy writes you an email doesn't mean he wants to get in your pants. Immediately coming to that conclusion could mean: A. You have a past full of people trying to have sex with you. If that's the case, you might want to check a few thin...Read More

My partner loves me unconditionally. Used to not believe in unconditional love in the context of intimate relationships. What a dummy I was. Bridget has loved me this way since the beginning.  I wonder how much more greatness can come to me wh...Read More

Real life. Real relationship. They are challenging. You want one, but when you get one, you can't stand it. Or, you love it and you love it more, but it doesn't work. Or, you love it and you hate it and it drives you batty. I listened to a great 20 mi...Read More

I can appreciate more than ever unconditional love. I used to think it didn't exist; we all have conditions, right. But when I discovered B, who sees me as I am and loves me anyway, I can't help but marvel at the good fortune. For such a love is rare. ...Read More

There’s stealth, then deep stealth. There may be an even deeper level. So effective these are, a new term for this kind of transwomen has become vogue: "Trap”   Transwomen running stealth or deep stealth sometimes (I hear) struggle ...Read More

I believe all life experiences teach us. Everything that happens to me is good. The human world challenges this perspective. Yet I persist. Why? Only humans view things as “good” or “bad”. All other living things deal with shit...Read More

In my first post I laid out three points a transwoman shared.  She helped me understand why I might have trouble meeting quality transwomen. These points she suggested would thwart my desire to settle down with a trans woman. Colloquialisms aside...Read More

Dating, love and choices I have lived "out loud" about my natural attraction to transgender women for the last 15 years. Sometimes, my friends ask what my attraction is about? What is it about transwomen that attracts you, they ask. I've done a lot o...Read More